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           n By Abdul Malik Mujahid    Understanding Modesty in an Islamic Context                                              Nikah, and Hijab are Islamic val-
                  Chicago, IL                                                                                                   ues, norms, and etiquettes. Al-
                                                                                                                                though not all Muslims may live
                ost of the Muslim                                                                                               up to these ideals, social morality
                world sees America                                                                                              is still defined by these norms in
        Mthrough the eyes of                                                                                                    the Muslim world. And nudity is
        Hollywood movies, which is far                                                                                          nothing but the antithesis of Haya,
                     from an accu-                                                                                              even by those who may not be liv-
                     rate portrayal of                                                                                          ing by these ideals in the Muslim
                     American moral-                                                                                            world.
                     ity. Nonetheless,                                                                                              Breaking these norms is tak-
                     there certainly is                                                                                         en extremely seriously in Muslim
                     a big cultural gap                                                                                         societies. Many states treat crimes
                     in the way people                                                                                          against these norms so seriously
        in the West deal with modesty                                                                                           that they use capital punishment.
        and privacy of the body, and the                                                                                            Unlike what some in America
        way  individuals  in  the  Muslim                                                                                       lead us to believe, no one hates
        world do, regardless of their lev-                                                                                      America in the Muslim world be-
        el of Islamic practice.                                                                                                 cause of democracy and freedom.
            This  Islamic  sensibility  of                                                                                      It is the immorality of America
        considering the human body of a                                                                                         (championed  by Hollywood),
        very personal realm is connected                                                                                        along with American foreign
        to the concept of honor, dignity                                                                                        policy which defines the conflict
        and privacy. This is not limited                                                                                        between the Westernized elite and
        to Muslim countries. In fact, it is                                                                                     religious elements in Muslim so-
        found in many Eastern cultures as                                                                                       cieties.
        well, such as in India and China, at                                                                                        https://www.soundvision.
        a far higher level than in the West.                                                                                    com/article/understanding-
            What is Haya? Haya, Satr, Ni-                                                                                       modesty-in-an-islamic-conte
        kah, and Hijab are four important                                                                                       xt?eType=EmailBlastConten
        concepts that help explain Islamic   Muslim world look for Christian-  there is no exposure of the human   carf" in Turkey and France, many   t&eId=5169d1f8-3094-4df9-
        precepts relating to modesty.  themed films from America to   body. Muslims will go to great   people in the world now think   b41a-c2835b319e8b
                                      run on their stations because they   lengths to avoid this. In many   Hijab means headscarf. In the
            Concept of Haya           feel these come close to the Haya   villages,  people  have refused  to   fight for the hearts and minds of
            The concept of Haya is con-  standards of their societies.  see physicians if they needed to   Muslim women, the headscarf  FEAR FROM P7
        sidered a major Islamic virtue and   Public Haya is also the reason   undress for them. This prompted   has become a symbol of assertion  Paedophiles and sexual abusers are
        an integral part of human charac-  that even in secular Muslim coun-  Imams to preach that a Muslim   for Muslim feminists as well as a  present in many professions but cler-
        ter.                          tries you will not find collective   can undress in front of a physician   symbol of women's oppression for  ical sexual abuse is of a particularly
            Ask anyone in the Muslim   shower rooms in school dorms,                              most Western feminists. However,  egregious character. This is because
        world, Muslim or not, and he or   community gyms, or army bar-                            the concept of Hijab has a much  while all sexual abuse is terribly trau-
        she will know what the Arabic   racks where persons of the same   There is no exact       broader meaning than a piece of  matic, these people use their power
        word  “Haya”  is.  But  if  you  ask   gender freely undress and shower   English word which   cloth on a woman's head.  as religious and spiritual leaders to
        them to define it, they will be hard   in front of each other. I remember                     The etiquettes of Hijab go be-  make  their  victims  obey them. It’s
        pressed to do so. Haya is in the   choosing not to stay in a dorm in   can convey the     yond a dress code. It defines the  not just their power as adults that is
        grain of personal and social mo-  Chicago at a high cost to me be-                        relationship that men and women  at play but also their power as reli-
        rality, values and behavior.  cause of this common shower area   whole meaning            in a Muslim society maintain with  gious  leaders  whose purpose  is to
            There is no exact English   issue.                            of the Arabic           each other. It lays out the guide-  guide people towards the right path.
        word which can convey the whole   Haya is the reason many Mus-                            lines for interaction between the  In this sense, such abuse involves
        meaning of the Arabic term Haya.   lim men and women prefer to be   term Haya. Most       sexes, particularly those not  re-  not only the desecration of the per-
        Most people translate it as modes-  seen and treated by a doctor of the                   lated to each other by marriage  son but also the desecration of faith
        ty, shamefulness, and shyness. But   same gender. Haya is also the rea-  people translate   or blood. In essence, it is a set of  itself.
        all these words have negative con-  son that Muslim men and women   it as modesty,        legal and social norms that define   Keeping silent about this par-
        notations, which the word Haya   avoid situations where they will be                      gender relations in the public and  ticular sort of child abuse is also tan-
        does not have. Haya, unlike shy-  alone with a non-related member   shamefulness,         private space in the Muslim world.  tamount to desecrating religious and
        ness and bashfulness, does not in-  of the opposite sex.                                      Even Muslim architecture in-  moral principles. The paedophiles
        dicate that a person lacks self-con-  It is also because of Haya that   and shyness. But   corporates the element of Hijab in  and sexual abusers will continue
        fidence. In fact, in Islamic history,   you will not find the demonstra-  all these words   defining public and private place  committing their nefarious deeds
        the person most noted for Haya   tion of public affection between                         within one's own home.        but it is incumbent on every single
        was the third Khalifa Othman ibn   spouses in public. That loving re-  have negative                                    Muslim to stand up and call out cler-
        Affan, may God be pleased with   lationship is considered a private                           The Institution of Nikah  ical abuse.
        him.                          joy.                           connotations, which              Nikah  means marriage  in    One immediate step that ab-
            A person with Haya is not a   It is due to Haya that while   the word Haya does       Arabic. This is the only relation-  solutely must be taken is the in-
        shameless person. He or she is   romance is there, even in the secu-                      ship in which an adult man and a  stallation of CCTV cameras in all
        chaste, moral, restrained, upright,   larist-run television stations of the   not have. Haya,   woman can see each other's bod-  madressahs. This will provide vic-
        and virtuous. He or she is not im-  Muslim world, bedroom scenes,                         ies. It is not surprising, therefore,  tims a means to prove their allega-
        modest, immoral, indecent, lewd,   explicit language, and sexual in-  unlike shyness and   to note that dating still remains  tions and just as importantly it will
        unabashed, unashamed, unblush-  nuendo are not part of the shows.   bashfulness, does     unheard of in the Muslim world,  help protect the faith from men who
        ing, and unchaste. No, we are not   Of  course, all  of  that  is  being                  despite the practice's introduction  claim to spread Islam but instead are
        talking about angels here. A Mus-  challenged by satellite television,   not indicate that a   through Western television pro-  spreading the most depraved kind of
        lim goes up and down in his or her   which brings the Hollywood ver-                      grams in the region.          abuse one can imagine.
        faith and practice, but the ideals of   sion of America to Muslim homes   person lacks self-  Extramarital sex is considered   Evidence of this can be seen in
        Haya are such.                around the world.               confidence. In fact,        a major sin in Islam, and Muslims  the fact that Mufti Rehman chose
            Prophet Muhammad, peace       While Haya is an expected                               are encouraged to marry. This is  to abuse his victim on Fridays, the
        and blessings be upon him, said   norm of personal behavior defin-  in Islamic history,   why in several Muslim countries  holiest day of the week in the Is-
        that every way of life has its dis-  ing social morality, the basic Is-                   governments offer a stipend for  lamic  calendar.  All  of  this  must  be
        tinct character and for Islam it   lamic personal law taught to Mus-  the person most     eligible couples to get married if  stopped  immediately  and  the  only
        is Haya (Muwatta). He also said   lim children in homes or weekend   noted for Haya was   they cannot afford to.        way to impose accountability on
        Haya is the fruit of faith. (Bukhari,   schools around the world, from                        Of course, there are people  such monstrous clerics is to demand
        Muslim).                      the United States to the United   the third Khalifa         who do have affairs in the Muslim  that Prime Minister Imran Khan
            Haya is not morality to be im-  Arab Emirates includes the fol-                       world. But this is considered a se-  and parliamentarians in the nation-
        posed, but something that must   lowing concepts of Satr, Hijab and   Othman ibn Affan,   rious crime against one's family,  al and provincial legislatures pass
        arise from within a people. But at   Nikah.                  may God be pleased           the community, and a major sin  laws  that require all the  thousands
        the same time, it is not a private                                                        from a spiritual perspective.  of  madressahs  registered  with  the
        affair. It is an established and ac-  The Code of Satr              with him                  The institution of marriage in  government to immediately install
        cepted social morality which      Satr is another important                               the Muslim world has been seri-  CCTV cameras in places where chil-
        members of society collectively   code to understand. Muslim men                          ously challenged by the cultural  dren and clerics interact, as well as
        regard as desirable.          and women are asked by Prophet   if this is required for treatment.  imports from the West. However,  to crack down on the huge numbers
            A state, therefore, is expected   Muhammad, peace and blessings                       its strength despite these pres-  of unregistered madressahs. The fear
        to be the organ through which any   be upon him, to observe Satr. This   The Etiquettes of Hijab  sures, prompted former US Presi-  of God has not deterred these men
        society mediates its moral values.   means Muslims must keep their   "Tell the believing men to   dent Jimmy Carter to note that  from abusing our children, perhaps
        This is the reason we find that the   bodies from the navel to the knees   lower their gaze and be modest.   the only countries in Africa where  the fear of CCTV cameras will force
        Malaysian government asked for   covered in front of others of the   That is purer for them. Lo! God is   AIDS has not become an epidemic  them to leave our children alone.
        the removal of nude scenes from   same sex. The only exception to   aware of what they do..." (Qur’an   are Muslim countries.
        the Hollywood film Schindler's   this rule is one's spouse.  24:30-31)                                                     (The writer is an attorney teach-
        List, for example. It's ironic that   Satr explains why in the tradi-  Due to secular fundamental-  Conclusions         ing constitutional law and political
        many television stations in the   tional dress of Muslim countries,   ists who have banned the "heads-  The concepts of Haya, Satr,  philosophy. Dawn)
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